My father's grandparents were born in Sicily. His father, though  born in the US, grew up in Altofonte, a small town on the outskirts of Palermo, until he emigrated to NYC. I grew up in an Italian-American household, with a heavy leaning towards the American. Most of those who know me would say I am a well-educated, science-minded, individualistic feminist. I'm also the mother of two  girls.  
		    Since marrying a Sicilian in 2000, I’ve been spending a significant amount of time in Sicily with my in-laws during the summer months. 
		      
		      It’s a rich yet often frustrating experience for me on many levels. With two small children that need me incessantly in a culture that is confusing, inefficient, chauvinistic and overbearing, I often feel like I can’t move - like a rock. Yet – to my children, I am precious, irreplaceable,  seemingly luminous. It’s a complicated combination. 
		      
		      I have to be still to watch them play nearby, still as I wait for them to wake from a nap, still while they sit on my lap, or still while I simply don’t have anywhere else to go because the schedule dictates it. I feel like a rock.  
		    Yet this rock has feelings, anxieties, and emotional swings. I’m a hormone factory – chock full of the most incredible substances on the planet that control social interaction, trust, confidence, creativity, and contentment.  Precious liquids living inside my rock solid presence. This I share with all the women around me.  
		    The 12  recipients in this project have  very different ages, professions, and attitudes. Yet all connect me to a world that is still hard for me to penetrate (my Italian is unsophisticated). Through them I  am able to observe the complexities of human nature and the sheer power of life's force against all odds.  
		    I'm sharing with you the little biographical tidbits I have gathered and intuitted over the last few years. I didn't interview them or research their life stories. I wanted a superficial snapshot of their lives - In the  way that a gemstone catches the light for just a moment to catch your eye.   |